How the hell am I supposed to know what guys want?

Sometimes, other girls come up and ask me questions about their boyfriends and what guys want or how to get guys to settle down with them. They feel that I am somehow more knowledgeable than them about this subject but they seem to overlook one thing – I haven’t a bloody clue! Guys confuse me like you wouldn’t believe and these girls probably have more experience with men than I do, so how am I supposed to know what they do not? Maybe it’s that I read more erotica than they do, but I doubt that is it – so how is it that they figure that I somehow have knowledge about men that they do not. I am having my own troubles finding my own man and it’s hard, I will honestly tell you – even harder than it would be if I were a genetic girl. On many of the online dating sites I go on, despite my notes to read the entire profile before contacting me – some men still contact me without reading the bit about me being a transsexual. We get into that conversation, either they bring it up to me as they read it or I bring it up because I doubt they have honestly read the profile and the interest level takes a serious nosedive. Seriously.

I’ve only been with 3 guys before and none of those relationships have lasted even a month, so my advice is probably worthless in that regard. Not that I wanted it to end, but it had to end either because the man I was dating found that he couldn’t handle the relationship due to the fact that he just wasn’t ready or the fact that he has his own psychotic issues and runs off away from me. I am only on good terms with one of my exes and I doubt that we are ever going to get back together again, as much as I would like that. So, it bears asking yet again – why is it that other women somehow think that I am supposed to know what guys want? I don’t get it…

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