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I Loved Karaoke

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Here’s one thing that people don’t believe about me – I loved karaoke and I did it often when I was living the male lie. I thought I had a good voice for this corny-ass activity but I do have to say that as a transsexual woman who hasn’t had much voice therapy, I have [...]

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Tomorrow: Meeting Up With My Ex, Matt

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Today, out of the blue and with a little bit of inspiration, I decided to attempt to phone my ex-boyfriend, Matt and I admit, I was shocked by the response – I did not get the answering machine this time around. I actually got his mum to pick up the phone and one thing led [...]

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Won’t Get Fooled Again

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Reading a post on another blog called What Transmisogyny Looks Like has opened my eyes to all the definitions of transmisogyny, including one that happened to me just recently. You see, for years, even before I identified as trans, I knew this guy who ran a very famous pokemon site. We met when I was [...]

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How to be a friend to a trans person

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Recently, I have had to break yet another friendship off with someone simply because of the fact that they were being so offensive to not only me, but people that I know – that I could no longer associate with them. When I removed them off of Facebook (yeah, that’s where the debate was being [...]

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Can I Accept Christians in my Life?

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For the most part, I believe I could accept Christians in my life as friends or family as long as they are socially conscious on how they worship. I don’t necessarily agree with their practices but at the very least, they shouldn’t support churches which support a homophobic slant on politics and homophobic organizations such [...]

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