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Where I Stand With Samara

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Samara, my ex, has been posting comments on my post about why I have never been in a long-term, meaningful relationship and she wants to make the point clear that I have been married to Samara. For the sake of fairness, I am going to state that here and now so there is no confusion. [...]

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His Name Was Matt…

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I remember him very clearly and I both hope and fear that I always will. He was really my first “love”, even if it was a one sided love that ended oddly. His name was Matt Manning and I remember him quite well, he was going to Metro State College of Denver when I was [...]

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My First Removal Request From Douchebags in Heat!

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Do you remember Johnathan Boyd of Westminster, CO, the most recent Douchebag in Heat to grace the hallowed halls of that section of my website? Well, he has decided to contact me in an effort to get me to remove his entry from my website and has promised to do anything for me to try [...]

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The Dynamics of Dating Men as a Transsexual Woman

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I can honestly tell you that dating as a transsexual woman is fairly difficult, especially when you are trying to find someone who wants you for who you are instead of seeing you as some sort of fetish. And yes, I want someone who actually wants me for me simply because of the fact that [...]

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A Few Considerations for the Men Who Reply to t4m Personal Ads

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As transsexual women are often misunderstood in our culture, which is starting to look more and more like 1984 with each passing day, people often think that this is a choice. That this is some sort of kink like crossdressing and therefore, we are not serious about really being women. They seem to think that [...]

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