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His Name Was Matt…

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I remember him very clearly and I both hope and fear that I always will. He was really my first “love”, even if it was a one sided love that ended oddly. His name was Matt Manning and I remember him quite well, he was going to Metro State College of Denver when I was [...]

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Why Being a Straight Transsexual Woman Sucks!

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I am going to clarify right now that I do not think that being a transsexual woman in and of itself sucks because I am proud to be a transsexual woman. I am merely stating that it sucks to be a transsexual woman whom is attracted to men, basically a straight transsexual woman. I am [...]

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A Few Considerations for the Men Who Reply to t4m Personal Ads

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As transsexual women are often misunderstood in our culture, which is starting to look more and more like 1984 with each passing day, people often think that this is a choice. That this is some sort of kink like crossdressing and therefore, we are not serious about really being women. They seem to think that [...]

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How to Avoid Being Featured on “Douchebags in Heat”

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There is a new feature on my website for those who take the time to browse around, called Douchebags in Heat. It is an archive of e-mails that I receive in response to ads I place on numerous dating sites (most notably Craigslist) that are basically inappropriate. I feel that it is high time that [...]

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Transsexual Dating Advice, where art thou?

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I sometimes catch wind of lucky transwomen who have gotten married to a guy as their wife and despite the legalities that underlie this, one concern of mine is that in the TS community, we have no advice on how to attract a mate. Oh sure, we have advice aplenty on personal safety when dating [...]

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